8. Says she’s staying home, then is tagged somewhere else
So you’re asking her if she wants to hang out, or go watch a movie etc, and she tells you she’s either busy or stopping home… Fair enough, right? Well, what about when she’s lied and is either photographed elsewhere with other people, or even worse, tags herself on Facebook/Twitter etc out doing something else. Now, I’m not saying a girl doesn’t have the right to do this, but I guess it’d be frustrating for the guy. If a girl does do this, all she’s really saying to you is “I’d rather be doing something else”.
Time to move on!
7. Saying she’s always busy
In this 9-5, always on the go, connected to our emails lifestyle, a lot of us are genuinely busy. In the dating world, it’s very difficult to get to grips with what people want, however, if someone is interested in you, they will make time eventually. If, in this instance, you are talking to a lady and invite her to do things, and she constantly tells you she is busy, then it’s perhaps time to pull away from this one, as she may be just saying she’s busy as an excuse to not do things with you, and with that, also saying she’s not interested.
Remember, you can be busy and still make time for people you WANT to see.
6. Saying she needs to work on herself
Whilst we are all clamouring for self improvement, this cliche phrase could just be a lady’s way of telling you she’d rather be single than go on dates etc with you. I guess you shouldn’t really take this too personally, as a girl will generally instinctively know whether or not she likes you almost immediately, but it’s still a rather sour way of being told that you’re not her type. The types of girls who say things to this effect are usually the ones who are searching for something specific, or someone to help them stop “looking for/improving themselves”
Plenty more fish in the sea! just saying
5. She gets with someone else
Probably the most obvious on the list, but it’s always a sucker punch when someone you’ve been texting/talking to suddenly gets with someone else seemingly out of the blue. Again, this could boil down to politeness, not wanting to tell you straight or whatever, but over here we prefer honesty! Once again, don’t take this too much to heart, it just wasn’t meant to be, though it doesn’t change the fact that it still kinda hurts!
Saying she’s with someone else but still being single is another possibility, and another way of her turning you down without actually being straight up about it.
4. Telling you that you deserve someone better
Ever had a girl say this to you? Sure it may seem like a cop-out, and it more than likely is, because as we’ve said time and again, some girls won’t want to face telling you the straight up facts. Deserving someone better in her eyes just means she’s not interested. End of story. But hey, don’t beat yourself up, as she’s probably doing you a favour in the long run. You probably do deserve something and someone better!
This is up there with the girls ignoring you piece, but in some ways it is way, way worse. When she is blatantly reading each message you send, even those asking specific questions, and all she is doing is reading them and not replying, even though she is active on her social media, tagging herself or making status updates etc, then it’s time to just let this girl go as quickly as possible. It may be a sucker punch to see “message read” and not get a single reply, but in the long run, you’re gonna want someone who will reply and who does make time for you.
2. Saying she’s not interested now, but maybe in the future
This one is simply just a girl keeping you around to offer her some sort of ego boost for whenever she is feeling low. If you’ve heard a girl say this, then my advice to you is to keep well clear and get out of her life as quick as you can, because it’ll only end in tears. These sort of behaviors are to lead a guy on, and not because she wants to get with you, it’s to simply keep you around so she’s not feeling entirely lost or alone, especially when a guy she is interested in either ignores her or doesn’t give her what she wants.
As soon as you hear this, run a mile!
This was a reblog from Daily Entertainment.me (http://dailyentertainment.me/health/10-signs-shes-not/10)